Have you ever watched your child sound out a simple word like “cat” or “jump”? Behind those moments of learning lies a fascinating linguistic structure that forms the backbone of the English language: consonants. 

While vowels get a lot of attention, consonants make up 21 of the 26 letters in our alphabet and create the framework around which all our words are built. Understanding consonants is not just academic trivia—it’s a crucial step in helping your child develop strong reading skills.

What Exactly Are Consonants?

Consonants are speech sounds produced by partially or completely obstructing the flow of air through the mouth. Unlike vowels (a, e, i, o, u, and sometimes y), which flow freely, consonants create distinctive sounds through various types of blockages in your vocal tract.

The consonant letters in English are: b, c, d, f, g, h, j, k, l, m, n, p, q, r, s, t, v, w, x, y (sometimes), and z. Each represents one or more specific sounds that combine with vowels to form syllables and words.

How Children Learn Consonants Through Phonics

Effective phonics instruction introduces consonants in a strategic sequence rather than alphabetical order. This systematic approach helps children build skills progressively, from simple to complex.

In explicit phonics instruction, children typically learn:

1. Continuous sounds first – Consonants like /m/, /s/, and /f/ that can be stretched out when pronounced (try saying “mmmmm” or “sssss”)
2. Stop sounds next – Consonants like /b/, /t/, and /p/ that make brief, abrupt sounds
3. Consonant blends later – Combinations like “st”, “bl”, or “tr” that require blending two consonant sounds together

Consonant Properties and Classifications

Understanding how consonants are organized can help you better support your child’s learning. Consonants have several important properties:

Voicing

Consonants can be either voiced (using your vocal cords) or unvoiced (not using your vocal cords):

• Voiced consonants: b, d, g, j, l, m, n, r, v, w, y, z
• Unvoiced consonants: c, f, h, k, p, q, s, t, x

Try this simple activity with your child: Place your fingers on your throat while saying “sssss” and then “zzzzz.” You’ll feel vibration with “z” (voiced) but not with “s” (unvoiced).

Place of Articulation

Consonants are also categorized by where in the mouth they’re formed:

• Labial (lips): p, b, m
• Dental (teeth): th
• Alveolar (ridge behind teeth): t, d, n, s, z, l
• Palatal (roof of mouth): sh, ch, j
• Velar (back of mouth): k, g, ng
• Glottal (throat): h

Understanding these properties isn’t just for linguists—it can help you explain to your child why certain sounds feel different when pronounced. For instance, if your child struggles to differentiate between “f” and “v,” you can explain that they’re made in the same place (lips and teeth) but “v” uses the voice and “f” doesn’t.

Support Consonant Learning at Home

When it comes to helping your child master consonants, consistency between home and school creates the strongest foundation. Here are some practical strategies to reinforce what they’re learning in their explicit phonics instruction:

1. Focus on Sound-Letter Connections

Instead of simply teaching letter names, emphasize the sounds consonants make. When showing your child the letter “m,” say, “This letter makes the /m/ sound as in ‘mom'” rather than just calling it “em.”

2. Use Multisensory Activities

Children learn best when multiple senses are engaged. Try these activities:

• Sand tracing: Have your child trace consonant letters in sand or salt while saying the sound
• Body movements: Create simple movements that correspond to different consonant sounds
• Texture letters: Make or purchase textured letters (sandpaper, fabric, etc.) for tactile reinforcement

3. Play with Consonant Contrast

Help your child understand how consonants change words by playing with minimal pairs—words that differ by just one sound:

• cat/bat
• pig/big
• map/mop
• ten/den

Ask questions like, “What happens when we change the first sound in ‘tap’ to /m/?” This helps children understand the critical role consonants play in creating meaning.

Common Consonant Challenges and Solutions

Nearly every parent encounters some consonant-related hurdles as their child learns to read. Here are some of the most common challenges and how to address them:

Consonant Confusion

Certain consonants are frequently confused due to similar visual appearances (b/d, p/q) or similar sounds (f/v, b/p).

Solution: Create memorable associations. For b/d confusion, show your child how to make a “bed” with their hands—the left hand forms “b” and the right hand forms “d.” For sound confusion, explicitly compare and contrast the sounds with your child.

Consonant Blends

Many children struggle when consonants appear in blends (str, bl, cr).

Solution: Break down blends into their individual sounds first. For “stop,” have your child practice “/s/-/t/-/o/-/p/” before blending to “/s-t/-/o/-/p/” and finally to “stop.”

Consonant Digraphs

Digraphs occur when two consonants make a single sound, like “sh” in “ship” or “th” in “thing.”

Solution: Teach these as unique sounds rather than as combinations. Create picture cards where the digraph is highlighted in a different color to reinforce its unity.

Connect Consonants to Broader Reading Skills

While mastering consonants is crucial, it’s important to connect this learning to the broader reading process:

From Consonants to Decoding

Once children understand individual consonant sounds, they can begin blending them with vowels to decode words. Try simple games where you sound out simple consonant-vowel-consonant (CVC) words like “cat,” “dog,” or “sun,” gradually increasing complexity.

From Decoding to Fluency

As consonant recognition becomes automatic, children’s reading fluency improves. Support this development by:

• Reading aloud to demonstrate fluent reading
• Reading the same simple texts multiple times
• Practicing high-frequency words that contain various consonants

From Fluency to Comprehension

Eventually, consonant recognition becomes so automatic that children can focus on meaning rather than decoding. This transition marks a significant milestone in reading development.

Reinforce Consonant Learning: Resources and Activities

To support your child’s consonant mastery, consider these engaging activities:

1. Consonant Scavenger Hunt: Search for items around the house that begin with target consonants
2. Consonant Sort: Cut out pictures from magazines and sort them by initial consonant sound
3. Consonant Books: Create simple books focused on specific consonants (“M is for Mom, mouse, and milk”)
4. Sound Boxes: Draw boxes for each sound in a word, and have your child move a counter into each box as they say each sound
5. Consonant Songs: Learn songs that emphasize specific consonant sounds

Remember that children learn through playful, low-pressure activities. Keep consonant practice fun and integrated into daily life for the best results.

Empower Your Child’s Reading Journey

Understanding consonants is just one piece of the reading puzzle, but it’s a crucial foundation. By supporting your child’s consonant learning at home, you’re reinforcing the explicit phonics instruction they receive at school and setting them up for reading success.

Be patient, consistent, and celebrate progress along the way. Remember that each child develops at their own pace, and your supportive presence is one of the most important factors in their reading development.

For more resources on phonics instruction and supporting your child’s early reading skills, visit Phonics.org’s article collection regularly. Together, we can help every child become a confident reader!